Posted by Evergreen, a former member in HBF as he got it from Travelguideformen. Great to share for those who wants to meet foreign women and I suggest all to go to that Travelguideformen website that is posted a link within this article.
The KEY to hooking up in Brazil or any lower tier nation…
If you’re a guy who is only looking for flings and just wants to
hook up with attractive girls on your trip, and I could only
utter two words to you before you left for Brazil, it would
be these two words:
Before I get into the details, I need you to understand while
this article mainly applies to Brazil, it also applies to lesser
degrees in other countries like Colombia, Venezuela, Dominican
Republic, Peru, Costa Rica and pretty much any country located
within South East Asia, Eastern Europe, and Latin America.
But when it comes to Brazil, this applies 100%.
So what do I mean by being aggressive?
I mean that if you see a girl flirt with you or give you a compliment
or two, that means you go in for the kiss! Yeah I know it sounds
like a perfect plan to get shot down, but remember, this is Brazil,
not your home town back in the USA, Canada, or Western Europe.
Let me tell you a little story…
A few years back, on one of my first trips to Brazil, I was in Brazil,
and my Brazilian friend were out and he goes, “Hey, my friend
thinks you are cute, you should go for her.” I go, “Alright, for sure,
I will.” I had literally just met the girl when he said this. So I started
talking to her, thinking I would have to talk to her a bit, and try to
win her over. After 5 minutes, my friend goes, “Why haven’t you
kissed her yet?” I go, “Man, I just met her 5 minutes ago.” My
friend goes, “No, here in Brazil, if a girl likes you, you don’t have
to sit there and work on it, just go for the kiss.”
I’ve had similar experiences in Colombia and other Latin American
Countries. You see, the thing is that since the whole environment in
these places is stacked up in the men’s favor. The men don’t have time
to play games. If the girl plays hard to get, the guys just move on to
the next attractive girl that’s not going to play games. The women
therefore learn, through experience, that they have to flirt more
and not be so uptight… If a guy makes a move she knows that she
can’t just shoot him down, because there are so many other attractive
women around that she would lose him to the other foxes.
I’m reminded of a Colombian girl I met here in the United States about
two years ago. She was working in my office and I ran into her at
the pantry and we shot up a conversation. I asked her for her phone
number and we started to hang out after work. This girl was 25 and had
just arrived from Colombia six months prior to me meeting her.
One day while we were hanging out after work, she told me something
that sticks in my mind to this day. She said that she had noticed, that
American men are “soft”.
What she meant is that American men are not as aggressive as the
Colombians she was use to back in Colombia. Colombian guys, just like
Brazilian guys are more aggressive…
The whole reason for this is that American men live in tough
environments where attractive girls are not a dime a dozen but more
like diamonds in the rough. These attractive women get hit on too much
and they end up shooting a lot of guys down… I know because I’ve been
shot down so many times here I lost count.
This tends to make us American men less prone to be aggressive because
of all the negative feedback we’ve gotten throughout our lives. The same
applies to our fellow men in Australia, Canada, and Western Europe.
The KEY is to REMEMBER that places like Brazil, are different.
Everything is in your favor. Go for the kiss. You have a higher chance
of success here then any other place on the planet.
If it doesn’t work out? Guess what? You have an almost endless supply
of attractive women to pick from… It can’t get any better then that…
[i]I got this from a old email newsletter I subscribed from http://www.travelguideformen.com%5B/i%5D
Mentality: Power and Leverage In The Lower Tiers
Upper Tiers: The term “upper tiers”, is a term I use to easily define the
wealthiest regions of the world. North America, Western Europe, Australia,
New Zealand, and some of wealthy Asian countries are considered upper
tiers. I classify these wealthy nations into one group because they all share
a few common characteristics. For example, they hold most of the worlds
wealth. They all share in economic prosperity. Because of their prosperity,
these regions/nations also share a male-female dynamic that favors the
Lower Tiers: The lower tiers are the opposite of the upper tiers in many
respects. The lower tiers are the regions of world that are considered
developing economies. These regions include Latin America, South East
Asia, Eastern Europe and Africa. These regions all share economic
similarities but they also share similarities in a male-female dynamic that
favors the males. When any many steps into the lower tiers, he
automatically inherits a certain level of power and leverage.
Power and Leverage: Power and leverage refers to an inherent power
you will gain simply by stepping foot into a lower tier environment. Most
lower tier nations will give you a great amount of power and leverage
over the opposite sex.
Ok. Now that you know the basics, let’s get started… Throughout the past few
years of traveling, research and interaction with both men and women through
my trips, I’ve come to some very important realizations. I’m going to share those
realizations and insights with you now. In order to succeed on your new journey
of meeting foreign women, there are some very important things you should
The upper tier nations all share in economic prosperity, but they also share
similarities in their cultures and social dynamics between men and women.
What I’ve found is that the most economically developed nations, in general,
have a social dynamic that favors the females. Factors such as immigration,
feminism, obesity, and prosperity, all contribute to a social dynamic, which
ultimately favors the females over the males.
In contrast to the upper tiers, the lower tiers have social dynamics that favor the
men to varying degrees. Whenever a man steps into a lower tier environment,
he automatically inherits this favorable dynamic. I like to say that this favorable
environment gives any male “power and leverage.” As a man, you will enjoy
varying degrees of power and leverage no matter where you go within the
lower tiers. In most of the places that you will probably be traveling to you will
enjoy a great amount of power and leverage.
Discussing all of the reasons behind your power and leverage in the lower tiers
is beyond the scope of this report, but let’s just take a quick look at immigration,
in order to get a better idea of how these factors change the male-female social
If you look at any group of immigrants, within any of the upper tier nations
you’ll find that there are more males then females within any immigrant
community. Now take into consideration that the world has experienced
migration within the tens of millions, over the past decades from the lower tier
nations to upper tier nations.
Whether we look at legal immigration through work visas, or illegal immigration
the numbers are astoundingly skewed. It’s mostly men that migrate to the
upper tiers from the lower tiers. This mass-migration of males has left the upper
tiers with a surplus of males, who happen to be in their reproductive prime,
most likely between the ages of 18-40.
If we look at the opposite side of this coin, we can see that just about anywhere
you go within the lower tiers, the ratios will favor the men, and one of main
reasons for this is because so many men have migrated to live in countries like
Spain, Canada, Australia, and The United States. Keep in mind, migration is just
one small slice of the power and leverage pie.
This brings me to my point. Just as the social dynamic favors females in the
upper tiers, the lower tiers favor men in many ways. Just as us men have been
fighting an uphill battle, in the battle of the sexes within the upper tiers, foreign
women have been fighting their own uphill battle in their own homelands.
Therefore it’s not difficult to see why we would both welcome each other with
Many men notice that foreign women treat men better. Men from the upper
tiers, due to their upbringing and their conditioning, will often treat women
better then men from the lower tiers.
As a man traveling from the upper to the lower tiers, you will not only benefit
from an environment that benefits all the men in the region, but you will also
enjoy a few other benefits. As a traveler from the upper tiers, you will
automatically receive various positive perceptions just based on the language
you speak, how you dress, and where you’re coming from.
Some common perceptions include that you are: Educated, cultured, well off
(Not necessarily rich, but middle class), well mannered, etc. In general, foreign
women and most foreign people will have high perceptions of you.
In truth, foreign women think very highly of the men from the upper tiers.